How are we to measure degrees of friendship, love, virtue. And then combine them into some overall measure of personal welfare? Sometimes we have to choose between increasing happiness and respecting autonomy.

I'm going to encourage you a little, to help you get started. :)

I am going to encourage you a little, to help you get started :)
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